Monday, May 10, 2010

How To Win My Girlfriend Back - Lesson 1















I guess you read this because you have lost your girlfriend. I feel your pain. To lose someone the one you love is one of the most devastating things one can go through. I'm sure you feel helpless and alone! But if you really want to know "How To Win My Girlfriend Back", Read on!

But you are not alone anymore! I'm here, and I will do anything in my power to help you get her back!

The first thing you need to do is to "snap out of it". Stop feeling helpless and depressed, and start focusing on your goal: to get her back. The things you need to do to get her back will be tuff, so you really need to "Man Up"!

What you need to do right now is to stop all contact - on your part! If she takes contacts, that's great. But you must not be chasing her! You chasing her will only make things worse.

To get her back, you need to pull some female "hot buttons" and trigger her on an unconscious level. If you think about it: we never decide to be with someone on a logical, conscious level- so to win her back, you need to stop trying to convince her on a logical level. Let her be alone, and let basic psychological factors do it's magic.

If you stay away from her, there will be a peak of her feelings of loneliness! That's when you will be there! But first, let her beg for it. I know this might seem too easy to work. And there is more to this plan than this simple trick! But you are already a giant step closer!

Now you need to use this time away from her right, and boost your chances of success! And I will help you do just that!

Saturday, May 8, 2010

How To Win My Girlfriend Back - Understanding Female Attraction


If you want to know "How To Win My Girlfriend Back" - a huge step in the right direction is to better understand how the female mind works. Have you ever been wondering why women seems to be so attracted to some men, and don't seem to recognize others? This will give you some insight in to the secret world of female psychology and attraction. It will not only help you to with How you can Win your Girlfriend Back, but also to develop a better understanding of the mysterious world of the female mind, than most men will ever achieve.

We humans are not attracted to each other by chance - evolution is not based on accident! Many psychological factors determine how and with whom humans are attracted.

An important factor in understanding attraction is accepting that female attraction differs from men's in many ways. Have you ever seen those couples where the woman is strikingly beautiful and the man appears, at least for an untrained pair of eyes to be.. Well, unattractive? Ever wondered why that is?

The secret is one of the important differences between male and female attraction. Women are mostly attracted to male behavior, while men, as we know, are generally, most attracted to a women's physical attributes. The apparently unattractive man with the much more attractive girlfriend in his knee, consciously, or for the most part unconsciously, knows how to behave around women. And that, my friend, is what separates boys from MEN!

That fact that you read this tells me something about you! You probably know something about how to behave around women- since you've actually had a girlfriend, and that now want to know how to win her back. Most importantly, it tells me that you are willing to do something to get back your ex. And that's wonderful!

The fact that you where able to attract your ex girlfriend is not necessarily a proof of your conscious skills to attract women, in most cases it's a sign of something unconscious.

When you where able to attract her- why weren't you able to keep her, you might ask. And this is where most men fail: when it comes to keeping a girlfriend, and to keep the attraction going in long-term relationships.

Most men are totally different persons in a relationship, and as single. When single they are all about presenting them self as the best they can be. Dressing up nice to impress, showing off how much fun they have with their friends, they are passionate about their life, and have their own things going. But what tend to happen in a long-term relationship? A lot of the traits that once had your girlfriend attracted to you like a magnet vanish! What are these unattractive traits that replace the attractive traits place? The most important one: Insecurity! Women are NOT attracted to insecure men! Think about this: When the two of you first got together, where you an insecure man? Always asking for her opinion on anything and everything from what shirt you should wear, what the two of you should do, where you should go, what you should eat, how god you where in bed? Where you jealous? Asking her about other men? I don't think so!

When entering a relationship most people are self-dependent individuals with a lot to offer their new girlfriend. The new couple is two individuals with their own life, their passions, dreams and friends. Now, it's obviously awesome to become a twosome- but it's so easy to fall in to the habit of using the other person as a crutch. As the relationship goes on, many men start acting like insecure, obedient and lovesick puppies- and this will eventually drive the woman away, and make her lose the attraction!

So, for you to be able to answer the question "How To Win My Girlfriend Back?" this is the time to reflect on your past behavior. Find out if you, like so many men before you, are guilty of some of these "attraction- killers", and if this might have had something to do with the breakup. And finally: Do something about it! Get back to that confident, active and passionate person both you and I know you can be! Show her all she is missing! Before you know it, she will be begging you to take her back!

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